The fact is that the majority of our thoughts and actions are on autopilot. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing either. Our habits, routines, impulses, and reactions carry us through our lives so we don’t have to stop and think about it every time we wipe our ass or start a car.
The problem is when we’re on autopilot for so long that we forget we’re on autopilot. Because when were not even aware of our own habits, routines, impulses, and reactions, then we no longer control them they control us. Whereas a person with self-awareness is able to exercise a little meta-cognition and say, “Hmm… every time my sister calls me and asks for money, I end up drinking a lot of vodkas.
One of the major things that we often think of this self-awareness thing is that it’s something we can’t control. But the truth is that we can and should control it. Because it’s our habits, routines, impulses, and reactions that we can’t control. We can choose to control them, but we can’t keep doing the same thing over and over again.
There are some things that we can control and some things that we cant. But we can control the things we can control. For example, if we want to have a great relationship, we can make sure our relationships have a lot of good in them. We can make sure they are always enjoyable and that they never get boring. We can make sure that we have a good relationship and that it lasts. But we can only control the things that we can control.
This is one of those things that people get confused about. They think it’s like you can only have one relationship at a time, but in fact it’s like you can have two or more. That means that you can only choose one relationship at a time. But you CAN choose one relationship at a time. You can only choose one person at a time.
This week we’ll tell you that every time you’re ready to go to bed, you’ll be the one who’s ready to go to bed. We’ll show you the reason why, but it’s not really that simple. It turns out that you can’t choose one relationship at a time, so you’ll have to choose one person. If you’ve already seen that, then that’s fine. But you CAN choose one person at a time.
Your partner can come in and out of relationships at whim. It’s a lot like having two siblings. You can give them different personalities, which is what you do with the siblings in the first place. But it also gives you the ability to pick one person at a time.
There are a few different ways you could do this. You could marry your partner at the start and have them be your partner forever. Or you could just keep them as your current boyfriend or girlfriend. Or you can marry them as friends. Or you could have them be your parents. Or your kids. Or your friends. Or friends of friends. It all depends on what you want to happen.
In my opinion, the best way to do this is to just let them be your current siblings. You can always find a way to change that later on. You can be that person that you’re now seeing as your parents. You can be that person that you’re now seeing as your friends. You can be that person that you’re now seeing as your sibling. You can be that person that you’re now seeing as your friend.
You can be whoever you want. So if you want to be the same person you are now, you just have to be that person. There’s no such thing as a bad person.